New, Exciting eBook, 'Love, Anger and Trust: Embracing the Passive Aggressive Relationship,' Offers Valuable Answers to Stand up to Unfair P

(PRWeb) December 12, 2006 -- There is a widespread acceptance of harsh, violent treatment in our society...even in personal, intimate relationships. This is sad and unjust, because so many people are made to suffer just when they believe to be secure and cherished.

One of the most common behaviors in this area is the passive aggressive behavior. Since open violence is not easily condoned, then you have the behavior composed or myriad of little hostile acts, offered inside a "loving and caring" frame.

What do people can do when in the receiving end of hidden critiques, public put downs and nasty comments delivered in a steady basis? That cannot be described as a secure and loving relationship! Of course it is not; but it takes a while for the victim to be able to recognize the quality of the treatment received, because so many times it is delivered as motivated by the most deep "care and concern for you."

So, people in the receiving end have to sort out the double message and finally recognize their inner pain and hurt. Sometimes, there is a need to protect a deep emotional self because feeling hurt and humiliated,while at the same time there is also fear at the other person's reactions...Then, as a result, people become afraid of asserting their own needs, because worst damage could be produced by the confrontation. So, it ends conforming an emotional trap.

Here is a solution to this painful emotional trap:

Neil Warner, from Creative Conflict Resolutions in Florida, has developed this manual to help people identify their situation, look at possible solutions by having the right answer ready, and learn how to apply it to their own relationship. The ebook looks at every possible passive aggressive behavior, in a way easy to identify, and provides the most useful answers to deescalate conflict and gain control of the interaction again. In this way, a person can learn the skills that will make him/her more assertive, secure and with a good self-esteem.

"Love, Anger and Trust: Embracing the Passive Aggressive Relationship," offers guidance from a professional coach who can provide the answers needed to change an abusive relationship.

It initially describes (Chapters 1 to 3) positive responses to conflict behaviors in different type of personal relationships, from people able to respect each other to passive aggressive types.

In Chapters 4 and 5, it presents with much detail the intricate interpersonal dance that living with a passive aggressive partner is, and offers useful ways of dealing with the inevitable difficult situations that will appear.

The conflict strategies offered are applicable to some worst case scenarios, giving suggestions for new behavior which can stop the interpersonal pressure and open the door to conciliation. It also includes a clear Chapter on instructions for fair fighting for couples, and another detailing what to expect dealing with a loved one from a different culture when there is conflict.

The ebook message is simple: If someone really wants to stop having undue grief in love relationships, and move to another level of life where they can really feel secure, without fear of fair confrontations, they need to be willing to challenge old ways of thinking and being, and adopt the new ones suggested in "Love, Anger and Trust: Embracing the Passive Aggressive Relationship."

This is the right ebook to learn how to enjoy negotiating better, producing respectful agreements with loved ones, and so to overcome passive aggressive behavior's negative spell.

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